Why Korean Restaurants Feel Confusing to Foreigners
Why do Korean restaurants feel confusing to foreigners? A local explains the unwritten dining rules you won’t find in guidebooks. Introduction Many foreign travelers say the same thing after their first meal in Korea. The food is great, the prices are reasonable, but somehow… the experience feels confusing. No one explains what to do. The staff doesn’t come over often. Water appears without asking. Side dishes keep refilling. This guide explains why Korean restaurants feel confusing to foreigners, and more importantly, how Korean dining actually works — from a local’s perspective. 1. Why Staff Don’t Come to Your Table Often In many countries, servers frequently check on customers. In Korea, it’s the opposite. What foreigners expect ✅ Staff checks in regularly ✅ Orders taken proactively ✅ Refills offered without asking How Korean restaurants work ✅ Customers call staff when needed ✅ Staff assumes you’ll ask if you want something ✅ Silence means “everything is fine” Calling out “Excuse m...